After First Date - Is She Into Me?

After your first date, you may not know how she really feels about you. A lot of guys will send a text directly after the date asking, are we a match? I can appreciate the directness of that approach but there is a more assumptive approach to use that will answer two questions at once. Here are the 3 text to send after your first date and notice in the third text, the assumptive question that answers, how does she feel about me?.

1) Ask her to text you when she gets home so you know she made it okay. This shows you care and sets you up for the reply text.

2) After you receive her text and she lets you know she made it home, let her know you enjoyed the date. Remember, KISS, keep it short and sincere. Say something like, I really enjoyed your company tonight.

3) Then, she will text you back, thanking you for dinner and telling you she had a good time. Then reply to her text and ask if she would like to go on another date.

4) When she replies, hopefully with a yes, tell her you will call her tomorrow to coordinate, then tell her goodnight and sweet dreams. That is it!

Notice in Step 3, by asking for a second date, she will automatically let you know if she is into you by saying yes to another date. If she says no, then you have your answer. I don't apply the 2 to 3 day rule before letting a date know I enjoyed their company and asking for a date.

When dating online your on internet time, meaning when you have a good date and you seem like a good match, then make your next move or they could be out with another person the next night.
By Richard Aubert