Double Your Dating

There are some men who do pretty well in the dating department. It isn't terribly difficult for them to successfully ask women out, and they get a fair amount of dates. If you are part of this group of men, kudos to you. You have achieved what many men are still struggling to do. So what's the next step from here? If you're getting bored and want more excitement, give yourself a challenge. Double your dating!

To get more dates you have to become something known and unknown. You know that you already have what it takes to approach women and start a conversation with them. To double your dating, you have to begin getting women to come to you. When women start coming up to you, it cuts your work in half. But if you do the same amount of work and they also come up to you then you can double or even triple your dating!

Staying elusive is the fastest way to double your dating. Here are two tactics:

First Tactic: You often meet women at bars you frequent or at parties thrown by friends.

Start going to other bars, and do your usual thing there. You will find that the women there will be more responsive to you because they have never seen you before. You are fresh meat, so to speak. If you do your usual strategies at the new bars, you will find that you will be picking up more women than you did at the bar you frequent.

Now, go back to the bars you used to hang out in. You will find that women will start approaching you! These women are the women that were always putting off talking to you. Since you disappeared for a while, they're going to take the opportunity to talk to you before you disappear again. Just like that, you've double your dating pool.

This is the same tactic you can use if you have a group of friends that always has get togethers. Skip a few of the parties and watch the women flock to you when you finally show up. You have turned yourself into the interesting guy that only comes around once in a while, and so they have to take advantage of your presence.

Second Tactic: Leave her for your friends.

Since you already have you own style for going up to women, it is very likely that you also have a certain type of girl you go up to. Expand your horizons and double your dating by going up to a woman you wouldn't usually approach. Start a conversation with her, and keep it going. After some time, tell her you have to leave to go back to your friends. This will frustrate her. As you walk away, turn back and ask her for her number. Tell her you'd like to continue the conversation later that evening, and you need it so you're sure to find her. She'll definitely give you her number.

By being elusive you send out the signal that you are someone who is interesting, has a great social life, and has many friends. People are attracted to these and will want to be around you. Doubling your dating doesn't take much more work than you already do, you just have to know the tricks!
By Kendall Davidson