Don't let your low self esteem and fear of rejection stop you from approaching the girl you've had your eye on for weeks! Brush your fears aside and walk up confidently to her. If you still feel too shy and tongue-tied and unable to gather up your courage to be successful, then maybe these tips will help you break the ice!
Get rid of those fears and the countless "what if's?" that plague your mind. Asking yourself the following questions: "What if she doesn't like me? What if she thinks I'm too fat? What if she already has a boyfriend?" is not going to help. Do not be worried about the outcome. Face the fact that there will be plenty of girls who are not going to be compatible or have anything in common with you. This will put you at ease and make you bold.
Don't look desperate and hound her for her telephone number. She will hate to cower down and give it to you. Be patient and casual. Make her feel that it is no big deal if she does not exchange numbers with you. Give her a chance to know you better.
You could be direct and honest with her. Let her look into those baby blues and see that you have no dark sinister motives! In fact if you could tell her that you would like to stay in touch and would she give you her number - you might just be surprised to find out that she will willingly do so!
Let her feel comfortable around you. You don't have to flatter or bribe her with compliments - she will know instinctively that you are not being true. You could give her your number and ask her to call you. If she likes you she will.
Don't let any rejection devastate you - taking things too seriously may have negative feedbacks and ramifications, and you don't want that. Be positive and open in your approach!
By Rahul Talwar
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