Let's face it, we all love to be lazy and stay at home watching television, browsing the web, or playing games. This is called "passive mode". Years will pass you by if you don't change your ways. There are thousands of single women out there waiting for you! You can start today, tonight, and even right now. The sooner you get out of your comfort zone, the better off you are in your quest to getting a girlfriend. The key to remember is that you're unique. No one can mimic your lifestyle.
Build your self-confidence and communication skills
You have to take small steps to gaining confidence. Talk with random strangers, young and old. Change your appearance, work out, and find hobbies you normally wouldn't try before. When you try different things, you might find something that you can talk about.
Act quickly!
When you see a woman and she notices you back, you have three seconds to act on it. If you wait too long, she'll notice you don't have what it takes and you might miss your chance talking to her. If you go too fast, she'll think you're desperate.
Actions, not words
Don't spend your time planning on exactly what to say. You'll end up mixing your words and not making much sense because you'll be too focused on a perfect delivery. Rather, a simple introduction works the best way. You'll be surprised that women aren't fierce when approached normally. Be careful with compliments, if you used a canned compliment on a good looking woman, it'll make you seem dull and unoriginal. She's probably heard it many times already. It's way better to compliment a woman on their sense of fashion, hairstyle, or jewelry. Remember to keep the conversation light and see if you have anything in common.
By Jenny Berk
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