There is nothing more frustrating than being attracted to a woman who does not share your feelings. She has no problem being friends, but when it comes to romance, she is not interested.
Most men are visually stimulated, attracted to a woman's beauty. Women, on the other hand, are drawn to a man's behavior and attitude. You can use this to your advantage to make her like you. Here's how...
Step 1 - Become a prize: All people want what they cannot have, and this is no less true when it comes to women. Make her feel like you are the prize, and she has won you.
The best way to do this is to change your attitude. When she calls, do not pick up. Talk to other women, and do not be overly glad when she gives you her attention. You are totally ignoring her, you are just noticing other people too.
Step 2 - Meet other people: When a woman has to share you with others, jealousy tends to rear its ugly head. This is especially true when it comes to other women in your life. In a social setting, mingle with the crowd rather than hang around her. Believe me ... she will notice. Her territorial instincts will kick in.
Step 3 - Date around: I know, I know...she is the only one for you. That does not mean you cannot date around. Once you do, she will feel the threat of losing you. Plus you have the added benefit of re-framing your expectations and she might not be the one for you after all. Your true love might be someone else.
Step 4 - Stop worshiping her: She goes to the bathroom just like you do; there is nothing sacred about her. Sure she is nice, but take her off the pedestal. Your goal is to make her adore you, not the other way around.
Final Thoughts
There's nothing wrong with liking a girl. However, to make her like you, you've got to change your behavior. Become a prize, meet other people, and see her for who she really is...just another person. Once you do, she will certainly notice.
By Zack Abraham
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