Online dating has become a popular way to meet new people - whether you become friends or even if you become lovers. It is exciting and challenging, but could also be dangerous. Here are a few safety tips for when you go on a date for the first (or first few) times with a stranger:
1. Always choose your location wisely. Make sure you are at a public place where there is a decent crowd and never, ever let a man pick you up at home. He doesn't need to know your address until you feel comfortable with him.
2. Lunch is better than dinner. When you meet a new man for the first time, it is best to arrange a lunch meeting. This way it is easy to leave within an hour or two, should you feel uncomfortable in his presence. It is also easier to avoid alcohol, which should definitely be avoided on a first meeting.
3. Offer to pay half the bill. Even if it is very romantic or considered gentlemen style to pay the bill, some met might expect something in return. So on the first date, make sure you take your wallet too!
4. When meeting a stranger for the first time, make sure you have easy access to your car or at least to the exit of the restaurant/coffee shop. If you feel uncomfortable, you should be able to get up and leave easily. You don't want to feel trapped or helpless.
5. Don't give your home number on a first date. Even if you have a good feeling about the guy, it's best to give your cell number rather than your home number. Home numbers can be traced, so if he turns out to be someone that you don't want to see again, you don't want him knocking on your door. It is your right to decide if and when you want to give him your number. If you don't want him to reach you again, don't give your number.
6. Always carry a cell phone with you. Because there are some risks involved in online dating, always have a backup plan. It is wise to ask a friend to phone you in one or two hours' time after your date. This way, it is easy to both make an excuse and escape, or just to make sure you are alright. Always tell at least one other person where you are going and when you will be home.
Online dating should be an adventure and it is an exciting new journey, but safety should always come first. Trust your instinct and make sure you are always in a safe place. Keep your address a secret until you have come to know the person and feel comfortable with him visiting you at home. If you follow these simple safety tips, you can now sit back and enjoy finding the love of your life.
By S. Burton
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